Not everyone is going to do a job the same as everyone else. I got that reminder big-time this past week.
I was watching someone work. She does things much differently than I do. Not incorrectly, but certainly differently.
As I was watching, another friend came up and commented on how he appreciated what she does.
I gotta say it. Inwardly, I snorted. Self-righteous little piglet that I am.
Then I got to thinking.
How often on this journey of grief have people snorted at me!
Stop homeschooling - you need more time to yourself!
Not dating yet?
You gotta take care of that right away!
You should..._________! (fill in the blank)
With prayerful consideration, I am doing things the way I feel I should be. Well-meaning though others may be, sometimes they cross the line, in my opinion.
I don't think they mean to hurt me or doubt my abilities...but sometimes that is just how it comes across.
Here comes the 2x4...I have done the same thing.
Shame on me!
Forgive me, Lord, for not trusting that You have given people certain jobs and certain circumstances to have their unique flair put into the work. Forgive me, Lord, for looking down my nose at them. Help me extend to them the grace that I expect to be extended to me.
And...forgive me, friend, for doubting you and not accepting your way of doing things.
I always thank my God for you because of his grace given you in Christ Jesus. For in Him you have been enriched in every way—with all kinds of speech and with all knowledge — God thus confirming our testimony about Christ among you. - 1 Corinthians 1:4-5